It’s not about you.
It is also all about you!
What others think of you, say about you or how they treat you, has nothing to do with you.
What we think, say and do is who we are.
When we are in denial, we project it onto others.
How you perceive and react to others is a reflection of you.
For example, reacting in anger to an affront is unconscious agreement with it,
while reacting with compassion is awareness of oneself on a loftier plane .