“It wasn’t meant to be.”

Really?

If it seems hopeless, you are micromanaging (trying to control). It is just the particular means you have chosen that is “not meant to be.”

Make a general decision eliminating all other options (de-cide = to-kill).
Intend to focus solely on what is in line with the vision/goal or what it will feel like when it is. Intend that you will know which actions you can take today…effortlessly.
Detach by being open to and enjoying the process – free from preconceived expectations about the who, the how, the where, the when and specifics about the what.

The goal is not in doubt. If it is your will, it is meant to be. And, it will be – if you let it and don’t force it!